Fighting with your partner? Follow these steps to save your relationship

Fighting with your partner? Follow these steps to save your relationship

Whether it is the period of courtship between two lovers, or the relationship between a husband and a wife. Fights are an integral part of every relationship. Arguing, ego clashes, hurting each other , one thing leads to another and if it is not controlled then it can even lead to breaking the relationship. To avoid getting to the point of divorce or breaking up with your partner, follow these steps to save the relationship Don’t raise your voice’s volume The maximum amounts of fights happen, when both partners lose their cool and raise their volumes. When the tone of the voice gets high, this immediately leads the situation to get worse. If the same thing can be explained in a normal tone of voice, then there are more chances of resolving the fight. Avoid saying hurtful things It is very common that if a person is feeling hurt and angry then they want to hurt the person who made them feel like this, the very same way. At that moment, it gets very difficult to control oneself. But if one wants to save their relationship, then self control is very very important. Do not say hurtful things to your partner or else it can lead to more problems in the relationship. Settle  problems yourself, do not go to friends or family for every tiny thing More than half the problems can be solved, if both the partners sit and discuss their issues. Running away to each others best friends or parents will only make matters worse. Sometimes problems are not very big,  but involving others gives it more...
Things A Couple Should Stand Up For Before Getting Married

Things A Couple Should Stand Up For Before Getting Married

Wedding is not just the biggest party you are ever going to have where you dream to fulfil all your dreams. Wedding comes with big time responsibilities towards your spouse as well as towards the society. Although young India is positively motivated towards woman empowerment and equality, we still have a long way to go to make our society a better place to live in. Thus, both men and women should consider it their duty to make them stand for the following things before a thought crosses in their head to get married: Be Financially Sound Not just men, but every woman who decides to get married should be able to take care of her expenses. It is totally essential in today’s time for a woman to be free, independent and ambitious to make the balance of the family appropriate and easy going. If there is just a single hand earning in the family, it becomes tough for the couple to manage the expenses and even plan a family. Thus, it is rather the demand of modern Indian to have a working wife to manage expenses equally. Say No To Dowry This social evil is so deep rooted in our society that it no longer feels like an evil but an obligation that needs to be fulfilled anyhow. But it is high time now, more than the women, the men should stand against it and neither should ask nor accept any form of dowry. After all, it is against the self respect of men accepting such charity in name of dowry. Also, the woman should be stern enough and...
How To Avoid Ego Clashes

How To Avoid Ego Clashes

Any relation which though is comprised of unfathomable depths of love does have little fights. These fights if not paid heed to can hurt feelings and leave a knot hard to untie in the delicate thread of wedding. Majorly, the fights result in silences which create an unattainable gap of conversation and with time the beauty of bond fades away. Thus, while you are waiting for him to make the first move, or he is waiting for you to talk first, remember that your “relation-ship” is close to the getting clashed by ego differences. It’s hard to keep your ego aside as it is often confused with our self respect but a little adjustment with being little more than understanding is what we call love. Talk your heart out In a relationship, if you are comfortable sharing your every little secret and insecurities, the ego clashes by themselves will get avoided. Speaking your heart out and hearing other’s will make your bond strengthened and little quarrels wouldn’t really matter. Be patient Patience is the key to overcoming every difficulty. Thus, you ought to remain patient while dealing with your partner and try not to lose temper over petty issues. You must listen and try to understand their point of view before getting judgemental. Never humiliate A relation is true if you consider each other equal. So, to avoid little fights that further could result in ego clashes, its better not to give it a start by humiliating each other. Respect your partner always and never make her feel inferior. Be their strength You must be aware of your partner’s...