Why Wedding Should Be A Shared Responsibility

Why Wedding Should Be A Shared Responsibility

A big extravagant wedding accustomed with a bash of events having a fusion of Indian and western culture has become a trend nowadays. Whilst this big fat wedding does bring happiness and charm in the conducted events, the bride’s family is left indebted under the burden of expenses. We all do love the festivity, food and anything new in the weddings but leaving some burdened with limitless expenses and following such traditions is actually a bane for the society. Living in the century where we talk of equality and adapting good out of western culture, it is high time we take this issue on the next level and make weddings a shared responsibility. We believe in equality With women empowering men in many fields, society has finally rendered into believing in the equality. And being an equalist myself, I would want my partner to believe in the same and share every responsibility equally. Perhaps, there is no written rule that bride’s family has to spend the lot to give away their daughters. We run a family together If you consider that it is the groom who is to take care of the bride for lifetime and hence bride’s family should take care of the expenses, you are in bad need to know the meaning of wedding. Wedding is a bond that brings happiness to the souls and gives you a shoulder to shed all your worries and sorrows for life. So, if you are going to look out for her financially or any other way she is going to be there managing your household, taking care of your children...
6 wedding proposal ideas

6 wedding proposal ideas

Wedding is a beautiful bond that ties not just two hearts, but souls together in eternity and finding a soul’s innate desire to connect and get freedom to love someone more than yourself for a lifetime is truly a blessing in disguise. So, if you have gotten lucky enough to find your better half, the one whose shoulder bears an exceptional light and warmth that only you can admire, whose fragrance gives you déjà vu with goose bumps, then waste no time and start gathering up courage and hold up your nerve to ask the big question in a way your dear one couldn’t have imagined. Here we help you become a hopeless romantic and give the most special moment of your life, a beautiful crafting. Let’s relive the past to make a better future Look into your past memories and select the most beautiful and romantic place you have ever been on a date with your love. Have the place set up with roses, candles, champagne and make it the best surprise proposal ever imagined. Music speaks to us, all we have to do is listen   Make it adventurous as well as fun If you are too nervous to propose her looking into her eyes; make your proposal an adventure. Just as Ryan decided to take his girlfriend Carlie on an airplane and pretend that the plane malfunctioned and then what followed was a moment that both of them won’t ever forget.   Let the family and friends help Throw a big bash on some special occasion like her birthday and invite over all friends and family....
Things A Couple Should Stand Up For Before Getting Married

Things A Couple Should Stand Up For Before Getting Married

Wedding is not just the biggest party you are ever going to have where you dream to fulfil all your dreams. Wedding comes with big time responsibilities towards your spouse as well as towards the society. Although young India is positively motivated towards woman empowerment and equality, we still have a long way to go to make our society a better place to live in. Thus, both men and women should consider it their duty to make them stand for the following things before a thought crosses in their head to get married: Be Financially Sound Not just men, but every woman who decides to get married should be able to take care of her expenses. It is totally essential in today’s time for a woman to be free, independent and ambitious to make the balance of the family appropriate and easy going. If there is just a single hand earning in the family, it becomes tough for the couple to manage the expenses and even plan a family. Thus, it is rather the demand of modern Indian to have a working wife to manage expenses equally. Say No To Dowry This social evil is so deep rooted in our society that it no longer feels like an evil but an obligation that needs to be fulfilled anyhow. But it is high time now, more than the women, the men should stand against it and neither should ask nor accept any form of dowry. After all, it is against the self respect of men accepting such charity in name of dowry. Also, the woman should be stern enough and...
How To Avoid Ego Clashes

How To Avoid Ego Clashes

Any relation which though is comprised of unfathomable depths of love does have little fights. These fights if not paid heed to can hurt feelings and leave a knot hard to untie in the delicate thread of wedding. Majorly, the fights result in silences which create an unattainable gap of conversation and with time the beauty of bond fades away. Thus, while you are waiting for him to make the first move, or he is waiting for you to talk first, remember that your “relation-ship” is close to the getting clashed by ego differences. It’s hard to keep your ego aside as it is often confused with our self respect but a little adjustment with being little more than understanding is what we call love. Talk your heart out In a relationship, if you are comfortable sharing your every little secret and insecurities, the ego clashes by themselves will get avoided. Speaking your heart out and hearing other’s will make your bond strengthened and little quarrels wouldn’t really matter. Be patient Patience is the key to overcoming every difficulty. Thus, you ought to remain patient while dealing with your partner and try not to lose temper over petty issues. You must listen and try to understand their point of view before getting judgemental. Never humiliate A relation is true if you consider each other equal. So, to avoid little fights that further could result in ego clashes, its better not to give it a start by humiliating each other. Respect your partner always and never make her feel inferior. Be their strength You must be aware of your partner’s...
12 Fun Things Every Girl Should Do Before Getting Married

12 Fun Things Every Girl Should Do Before Getting Married

Although it gets really exciting when you day dream about the idea of getting married, but red alert girls! Isn’t there any bucket list of things you have always wanted to do before you consider yourself ready to tie the knot? If there isn’t, you better give a look to these fun things you could do before you rush in the responsibilities zone. Because, once married there would be no looking back to these: Travel alone Do you have any little place in your heart that you wish to visit but have thought, “Alas! No one available to accompany”. It’s high time hovering on such stuff. Pack your bags now and enjoy the luxury of travelling alone and doing things your own pace. Follow your heart It is high time you take out time out of your busy schedule and think if you are ever going to follow little passions you always dreamt of like learning to play guitar or dancing. Yes, it’s time to follow your heart. Face your fears Be that sky-diving or deep-sea diving or bungee jumping, you got to experience all before you get married. Have this one time life experience and trust me you will not regret doing it. Go on a road trip How exciting would it be to get all your college buddies together and plan an adventurous road trip where you can party all you want. It would be like visiting a fairyland! Try online dating To try something crazy always brings new anticipation in life and dating online could be one of them. Moreover, you never know you might get...