4 Things you and your partner should do before starting a family.

by | Sep 10, 2015 | Bridal, Groom, Relations |

When a couple gets married, they always dream of having a perfect family together. There are dreams, goals and aspirations that they start planning for their future children. But it is very important for every couple to fulfill their dreams too before starting a family, so that they do not have any regrets in the future.


1) Be well settled in your respective careers

Husband Wife working

Welcoming a child into the world is one of the most important decisions in every couple’s life. To give them a good life, it is extremely important that the parents to be should be well settled in their respective careers. Changing careers at that time or starting something new becomes extremely stressful at that point of time when the baby is on the way.


2) Travel to your dream destinations

Husband wife on a vacation

Whether going trekking, backpacking, bungee jumping or simply relaxing on an island with your partner. Every couple has a list of places that they wish to travel together .Make sure you visit these places before welcoming the new member. As after the baby, the vacation destinations definitely have to be kid friendly.


3) Having your own house

Couple Outside their house 

A house means security. Before planning to start a family, it is very important to have your own house. It will become very uncomfortable, if you will have to shift from one place to another with a new born baby or even a young child. As then they will have to be uprooted from their school and environment to a new place.


4) Be mature about finances.


Indian Rupee

There are many couples, who do not think twice before spending. They do not hesitate before purchasing an expensive phone, or a camera or even branded clothes. But this habit has to be controlled when planning a family. The couple has to realize that they won’t be spending on just themselves now, every decision they take has to be thought over. They need to start saving for themselves and for their child.



Some couples start a family while they are still young and immature and then have regrets, while others plan and wait till when they are confident to raise a child. One has to consider the consequences of their actions, so that the child does not suffer. Being well planned is the most important thing they should do and definitely follow these steps before starting a family.